Instructions
Rate each statement from **1–5**:
**1 = Not true for us** • **5 = Very true for us**
Be honest. This is the blueprint for your rebuild.
Faith, Purpose, Covenant
1. We actively include God in our marriage and decisions.
2. We operate in marriage as a covenant, not a contract.
3. We revisit our shared purpose and vision regularly.
4. We both take responsibility for our spiritual growth.
Past Hurt, Baggage, Mindsets
5. We have let go of past trauma/baggage.
6. We address problems early instead of letting them pile up.
7. We challenge worldly mindsets with God’s design.
8. We own 100% of our 5% (we don't blame-shift).
Unity, Direction, Shared Vision
9. We walk in agreement on major life areas (money, kids, etc).
10. We function as one team, not competitors.
11. We celebrate each other’s wins (no jealousy).
12. We can disagree without disconnecting emotionally.
Communication, Emotions, Intimacy
13. We communicate without sarcasm or explosions.
14. We are emotionally safe for each other.
15. We work through conflict healthily.
16. We intentionally maintain physical/emotional intimacy.
Boundaries, Faithfulness, Influence
17. We protect our marriage from outside voices/temptation.
18. We prioritize time together (dates, rest).
19. We guard against resentment and bitterness.
20. We invest in maintenance (prayer, coaching, growth).
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